The issue of weight

Last night I admitted to my little sister that I was insecure about my weight. Not only do I feel unhealthy but I feel like there is something wrong with me because of my size. This came from being called fat a lot. I'm sure they felt like they were helping but they didn't know it did the total opposite. Every time I was called fat or was told that I wouldn't be able to do something because of my size they took a piece of my self confidence.

I began to give into those feelings by taking pills to boost my weight loss. I thought this would make my boyfriend be more attracted to me because in my mind I thought how could he like all of these rolls? I thought he's just saying he liked my size because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. No matter how much he loved on me and said nice things about my figure I did not believe it because I heard so much of the opposite. I was told that if I didn't lose weight I wouldn't be able to keep a man and that he would cheat on me with someone smaller.

My sister shaped the total opposite of me confided in me saying that she felt unhealthy and not pretty because she was so small. She wanted more meat on her bones! She attributed her size to the reason why she was cheated on in the past and thought that she would never be with anyone because she is too small. She thought that all of her guy problems would go away if she could a booty or bigger thighs.

When my sister and I confided in each other I thought about the fact that no matter what you do someone will judge you. Exercise and healthy eating are necessary for all people to be healthy but does that mean they have to be a certain size to do it? My answer is no!

If a man is going to cheat that is not your fault!! I hear women say this often "if your man cheated on you that means it was something you didn't do" that may be true but if your man was "man enough" he would have made it work with you and if that did not work he would have left.

You deserve a man that is faithful and is willing to work out your issues with you. It is never okay to cheat or to let someone cheat on you! The issue of weight has been something I battled since I was younger. I learned that my weight isn't your issue and it's not my issue it's Gods gift because we were all beautifully and fearfully made!!